The Parable of Lost Sons
The Gospel Books depict the Pharisees and
teachers of the law (scribe) as religious leaders in Jesus’ time. These people
have hardened and self-righteous hearts. They despise sinners or anyone who does
not conform to their behavioral standards. On the other hand, Jesus has the
heart of the Father that loves the world and hope for sinners to repent.
In the preceding text 15:1-2, the Pharisees criticized
Jesus, saying, “How can Jesus accept the sinner, and even dine with them?”
(15:1-2)
So, in response, Jesus told them the Parable
of the Lost Son/Prodigal Son.
The Younger Lost Son
There was a father, he had two sons. One day,
the younger son came to the father and said, “Father, give me my share of the
estate.”
In that ancient time, if this father died,
two thirds of his property would be given to the older son; one third to the
younger son. The oldest son would get double portion because he inherited the
father’s responsibility of maintaining the integrity and status of the family.
Of course, the splitting of family estate
only happened after the father passed away. When the younger son requested for
his portion of the estate while the father was still alive, this basically
meant he hoped his father died immediately.
The younger son wanted the father’s estate
but not the father. He thought that after getting his father’s riches, he would
be comfortable and free from the father’s supervision.
What’s surprising is that the father really
gave the younger son his share of the inheritance. The younger son then went to
a faraway place with the inheritance. He squandered his wealth on alcohol and
women and soon he spent everything he had (prodigal means “recklessly lavish,
having spent everything”. He was then in poverty and his life was a mess. He
became a hired hand ho looked after pigs.
As he was lying in the mud and couldn’t even
eat the pods that the pigs were eating, he realized that he was a fool. He came
to his senses and said, “How many of my father’s servants have food to spare,
and here I am starving to death! I want to confess my guilt to my father.” He
wanted to go home!
A home is not only a place of residence, but
also a place of family relationships, a place of belonging, a place of
acceptance and ultimately a place for the soul to find rest.
He knew that merely apologizing could not
restore the life to what it was initially. He had broken social ethics and
compensation had to be made. He wanted to tell his father, “Father, I do not
wish to be a son anymore, I do not deserve it, nor am I worthy of it. I want to
be a servant in order to make up for it, to repay my debts.”
So, he went home, and his father saw him from
afar. If you were the father, and you saw the son who hurt your family and
squandered your wealth, what would you do? Maybe you would show a stern
expression and say, “You better act well enough and show that you are pitiful
enough, and kneel and beg for forgiveness.”
But how does the story go?
The father saw him and was filled with
compassion for him; he ran to his son. In ancient Middle East, children would
run, teenagers would run, and women might run, but a father would never run.
Running meant that you needed to lift up your robe and expose the feet/calf;
this is a self-humiliating behavior. In spite of that, the father did it
anyway. He let loose his emotions, ran towards his son, and kissed him.
At that moment, the younger son told his
father his plan to compensate his father, but the father did not pay any heed
to that. Instead, the father said to his servants, “Quick! Bring the best robe
and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet.”
The ring was a signet ring with the family’s
seal on it. In that era, the way to sign a contract was not by putting a
signature on it, but by placing the family seal that was on the signet ring.
The father did not require the son to make up for his guilt. He restored his
sonship without any compensation. This is the meaning of free grace. The
father even had a feast and celebrated the return of his son. Luke often uses “feasting
together inside the house” to signify acceptance, reunion and salvation in the
Lord.
Some people are like this younger son who do
not want God. They only want what God can give them. These people wish to be
independent, live a life they want to live, believing that this will bring them
happiness. But in the end, they stumble and fail just like the younger son.
In the parable, the father represents God the
Father. Today, no matter who you are, no matter what terrible things you have
done, if you go back to the Father’s house, God the Father will accept you,
love you, and freely give you grace.
We might just be like the younger son,
thinking that we are not worthy, trying to get home with our own methods. We
might want to restore things/situations back to the way they were through our
works, but the God in the Bible does not need that. He has endowed upon us the
rights of a son: a status, identity, and guarantee. Just like that, we are
accepted by God through salvation in Christ.
At the end of the first scene, everything
seems to be back to normal. The conflict was resolved, the younger son was
forgiven by the father, the family was reunited, happy ending, isn’t it?
The Older Lost Son
When the father held the feast, a new
conflict arose. The older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he
heard music and dancing. So, he called one of the servants and asked him what
was going on. The servant replied, “Your brother has come, and your father has
killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.”
The older son became angry and refused to go
in. Now it was his turn to sully the honor of the family. He said, “I would not
want to be a part of this family. I am the only heir and I do not wish to live
under the same roof with that prodigal son.”
This forced the father to go out and plead
with him, but he still refused to go in. He told his father in a rough manner,
“Look!” Take note that he did not call “father”, and he continued to say, “All
these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. But when
this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home,
you kill the fattened calf for him. I’m not going in!”
He did not refer to the younger son as “my
brother”, he did not even refer to him as “your son”, but instead he said “this
son of yours”. He did not admit that he and his younger brother were family.
The older brother was furious, especially
resentful about the expenses of the feast. In that era, people did not have
meat with every meal. Meat was a delicacy, and the most luxurious meat was the
fattened calf. When the father killed the fattened calf, this meant that the
whole village was invited to participate in this expensive banquet.
The older son realized that this was the most
important day in his father’s life, but he did not care. What he only saw was
his father using his portion of the inheritance in the way that he himself is
unwilling to use. He was very concerned about the expenditure, the fattened
calf, and his father’s property. He was not concerned about his father’s heart.
And of course, he despised his young brother.
When the father went out to persuade the
older son, he said, “My son, you are always with me, and everything I have is
yours.”
This statement is indeed true. When the
father distributed the inheritance to his two sons, the younger son already
took his portion and spent all of it. Now, the older son was going to inherit
all that the father had left. He was the sole heir, everything was his. And now
that the younger son is back, his portion had decreased. He was furious, did
not give face to his father, causing his father to leave the banquet to clear
the truth with him.
The father gently replied his son, “My son, I
still wish that you attend this banquet.”
Just when we are anxious about what happened
next, Jesus ended this parable. He did not tell us the ending. Why?
Both Sons are Lost though in Different Ways
The older son complained to the father, “I’ve
never disobeyed your orders.”
The key is here. He refused to go into the
house, causing him to be distanced from his father, not because he had done an
obvious sin, but because of his own sense of goodness and self-righteousness.
The younger son cut off and controlled his
father by leaving the house while the older son cut off and controlled his
father through obedience and staying at home. The younger son obtained the
father’s estate through breaking all the rules while the older son through
observing all the rules.
Jesus is showing us that both of them are
lost, they did not build a relationship with their father; they were cut off
from their father.
Humans can get away from God by living a
moral and religious life, just like getting away from God through an immoral
and non-religious life. Many Christians are like the older son. If you say in
your heart, “I am very hardworking, I do my best to obey, I go to church, I
pray, I serve Jesus, therefore God owes me salvation and blessing; He must
listen to my prayers, give me a comfortable life. When I die, He must bring me
to heaven.”
If this is what your heart says, then Jesus
is only a model or your employer. He is not regarded as your Savior. You are
working to be your own savior. The moral values and religious practices that
you do are just to compel God to give you what you want, but not giving God
what He desires. On the other hand, a Christian who truly believes in the
Gospel and trusts the Lord Jesus obeys and serves God because he loves God, wants
God, wants to know God, wants to imitate Christ and find rest, joy and
satisfaction in God alone.
The two sons in the parable got lost in their
attempt to control their father and obtain the father’s estate, causing them to
be separated from God the Father. Whether we are the younger son or the older
son, Jesus calls us to come home. Jesus did not tell us the ending of the story
because He hopes that we will see ourselves in the story and desire to come
home. So, then, how do we come home?
Jesus is the True Older Brother who Redeems
Us Home
In chapter 15 of the Gospel of Luke, Jesus
actually told three parables of the lost. The first parable is the lost sheep.
A sheep was lost, and the shepherd went to search for it and brought it home.
The second parable is about the lost coin. A woman went into the house, sweep
the house and search carefully for it until she finds it. The third story is
the parable of the lost son. However, nobody went out to look for the son to
bring him home. Why?
Jesus did this on purpose to make us ask the
question: who should go out and search for the son?
During Jesus’ time, the people understood
well that it was the older son’s responsibility. Why did the eldest son get the
largest portion of the inheritance? It was to preserve the unity of the family,
to make sure the family estate remains complete. His responsibility was to make
the family look like a family.
Therefore, in this story, a good eldest
brother will come to the father and say, “Father, my younger brother left and
now his life in in shambles. But I want to go and search for him. I will find
him and do everything I can to bring him back, even if it’s at my great
expense.”
When the younger son depleted his share of
the inheritance, this meant that the older brother will inherit all that the
father had left. Every robe, every ring, every shoe and fatten calf belongs to
the older brother. When the father welcomed the son home, he spent the older
son’s property. Of course, to the younger son, there is no price to pay for
coming home; all these are grace freely given. But to the older son, this is
extremely expensive for he paid a great price.
We all need a true eldest brother. God cannot
allow us to go home just like that. Unless God sacrifices a true eldest
brother, God cannot adopt us, accept us, and provide us with food and clothing.
The younger brother in the story
unfortunately had an oldest brother who is like a Pharisee, but our oldest
brother is different. We have a true oldest brother, who loves and obeys the
father. He is Jesus. Jesus is God’s only son; he left his heavenly home and
came to this world to bring us home.
Galatians 4:4-5, “But when the set time had
fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem
those under the law, that me might receive adoption to sonship.”
Luke 19:10, “For the Son of Man came to seek
and to save the lost.”
Jesus is the eldest brother who loves God
with all his heart, soul, strength and mind, and loves others as he loves
himself. He is the eldest brother that has won everything. He won the robe, the
ring, the sandals… but what do we see when his life ended? He did not have the
robe; he was stripped naked. He did not have the fattened calf; he drank the
vinegar. He did not have the ring of glory; he had the crown of thorns.
Today, this true eldest brother is coming to
us and telling us, “I did all these for you. I was stripped, or else you cannot
be worn; I lost the robe, ring and sandals, otherwise you would not get them. I
have won everything, these things are mine, and I give them freely to you.”
Salvation is absolutely free, but to Jesus,
it is unbelievably expensive. Jesus Christ’s inclusion of a bad older brother
in the story is so that we may desire for a good older brother. We need an
older brother who is willing to lay down his life as a price. Jesus sacrificed
his own life on the cross to pay for our sins. Deep in our hearts, we know that
this is a debt we owe. He died on the cross for our trespasses and
self-righteousness so that he can bring us home.
Tim Keller describes God as a “prodigal God”
for He had lavishly spent all (free grace) – having Christ died on the cross in
order to save sinners.
Are you moved by the sacrifice that Jesus
made to bring you home? If you are moved by him, it will transform the way you
treat God, according to the degree that you have been moved. You would not
simply become an ethical person, you would not simply want self-actualization
or self-fulfillment, but you will become a true Christian.
A true Christian will happily go into the
feast of salvation with a grateful heart. He will not make a fuss over any and
every little thing, nor will he be annoyed and anxious. He will love others
even if there is a price to pay. He will not lose hope even if he lost some
wealth or is criticized. He knows that he is merely a sinner who received
grace; he knows he will be in the feast with God the Father in the heavenly
home. He has already been accepted by God, given the status of sonship and is
very grateful, satisfied, no more bitterness, no more worries.
Altar Call and Prayer
Where do you find security and purpose of
life? How do you satisfy your heart’s desire and purpose?
I don’t know your answer, but whatever it is,
if it’s not God, although it might be something good, it’s not a true home for
your soul! It cannot bear all the burdens and longings of your soul.
Our true eldest brother, Jesus, is calling and inviting us to go home and into the banquet of salvation, to find rest in the presence of God, and to have our hearts’ deepest desires fulfilled. Come home, all who are heavy laden by accepting Jesus as your savior!